Most women love to receive massages, especially after a long or stressful day. However, when it comes to a man giving her a massage, women always almost expect a man to try to simple massage a lot further. Sometimes women are okay with a massage leading to sex. Other times, a woman would simply like to enjoy a massage without feeling like she has to do anything in return. The great thing about this is that when you do give a woman a massage and keep it harmless and above the waist, chances are you’re going to turn her on and make her want you anyway.
A great way to turn her on is by making sure that you keep your massage sensual rather than sexual. Ask her where her trouble areas are and focus on those. If she has a sore back, don’t try to swoop low and massage her ass. Keep it above the waist at all times. Make sure you are asking her if she wants more pressure or for you to ease back some. You want to make sure that you are carrying out your massage as professional as possible. If she has long hair, you can occasionally run your fingers through it to brush it off of her back.
If you are lucky enough to be massaging a woman with large breasts, make sure you focus on her shoulders and trapezius muscle. This muscle gets a lot of strain from women with heavy breasts or those who are on the bigger side. Once you manage to massage out some of the knots, she may want to be all over you because she’ll be free from pain. Do not initiate anything unless she does. Make her want you.
Make sure you use massage oil or lotion. Ask her to change into a shirt that she doesn’t mind getting dirty, but do not request that she take her shirt off. She won’t know whether to be impressed that you aren’t trying to see her naked or to wonder why you don’t want to see her naked. Both of these things will work in your favor.
Another thing you should do while focusing on her above the waist massage is to have a conversation with her like you would any other time. Talk about her day, her favorite television show, or something else that encourages good and relaxing conversation. Try not to flirt with her or say anything that would suggest how turned on you’re getting from massaging her.
If she’s particularly tense, tell her that she needs to stop working herself so hard. Compliment her on how much she does, but remind her that she needs to relax and take care of herself sometimes. Make her feel like she is the only person in the world that matters and then when she is in pain, so are you. Before you are finished with her massage, she will probably be ready to rip your clothes off because you’ve managed to make her feel amazing both mentally and physically.