Nerdy is the new sexy, as they say. And while this mostly benefits odd guys who still go crazy about Star Wars even though they’re thirty, it also means that hot girls who would have previously kept their nerd interests hidden are actually admitting it. If you want to hook up with a nerd girl, you’re going to have to turn on the charm. Here’s how to cross that line and score with a gorgeous woman even if you’re not a nerd yourself.
Get Some Off-Beat Charm
You don’t have to dress like a hipster or an intern from IT, but nerd girls are drawn to men who don’t fit the usual profile. Slap on a pair of suspenders over a button up shirt, and you’ll be like catnip for them. If you’re not sure what look to go for, just hang out in a comic book store for a few minutes. The guys who aren’t covered in Cheetos dust and acne will be the guys you want to mimic. It’s a simple look you can throw together with very little effort, so make sure that you look the part before you go trying to pick her up.
Find Her Obsession
Every nerd girl has one thing that’s near and dear to her heart. Maybe she’s really into those new Star Trek reboots. Maybe she takes pride in being a GIRL who read COMICS. Whatever her thing is, you’ll find it after just a few minutes observing her. Focus in on that, and you’ll have it made.
You don’t have to spend forever researching this, either. Wikipedia will give you more than enough information to fake your way through conversations. After all, you’re only going to be agreeing with all her “keen insights” into this show, book, or comic anyway. Make her feel like a literary analyst, and you’ll have her hooked. Nerd girls love to hear themselves talk, and you can definitely get that to happen just by encouraging her to talk about what’s going to happen next week on “fill in the blank” show.
Let Her Get You Into A Show
When you’re ready to make your move, find something she loves (but not her main obsession that you chatted her up with), and invite her over to watch it at her place. Getting to be there while you love something she loves (or pretend to) is just the thing to make her feel relaxed and comfortable around you. When the credits finally roll, that’s when you make your move.