It’s common knowledge that even women who would otherwise be intelligent sometimes go for the bad boys. You’d think that after all the jokes and clichés, she would have learned her lesson, but they never do. Women love bad boys. If you want to get the women without becoming the kind of guy you just want to punch in the face, there are ways to accomplish this.
1. Find Your Gimmick
Women don’t always date jerks. Usually, they date jerks who have nice houses. Or they date jerks who can play the clarinet like Benny Goodman. There’s always something that these guys have that hooks the ladies in despite the obvious bad qualities that they possess. What you need to do first and foremost is find yourself a gimmick. Maybe you can learn to speak sign language. Maybe you can grow a really fantastic moustache. Whatever this is, it should be attention getting and pull them in to conversation with you. Restore a classic car. Take tango lessons. Do something to get yourself recognized.
2. Don’t be a Pushover
Honestly, most guys who think that women don’t like nice guys aren’t nice guys. They’re pushovers. Women don’t all want domineering men (we’re talking non-kink here), but they do want men who have opinions about things. If your only contribution to plans to meet up is, “I don’t know, I want to do whatever you want to do,” chances are that she’s going to get bored. It’s not that she wants a mean guy, she wants a guy who don’t make her do all of the work to get together with him. If you want to snag her attention, suggest a specific event for her to come to. If you don’t agree with her about a show or a movie, have a little discussion about it. You might just change her mind, and when you do she’ll be more impressed than you thought.
3. Pursue Her
A little persistence, some opinions of your own, and a conversation starter are really all you need to attract a good woman. Keep your mind open and you too can be getting those women who prefer interesting jerks over very nice, but kind of boring fellas.