Top Three Emails Which Work Most Times: Tips For Flirting Without Being Vulgar
We’ve seen it far too many times to count: guys that ruin their chances on dating websites when they’re desperate to get laid, all because they’re sending out e-mails that no one would want to reply to. Knowing what to say in that first e-mail is very, very important, and that’s why we’re here to give you the dating advice that you need to get started.
You have to keep it simple.
There’s no need to send out a first e-mail that is literally your life story and nothing else. The thing about that first e-mail is it’s only supposed to be a gentle compliment, commentary on her profile, and maybe something about yourself to relate back to her. You should also always include a ‘hook’ question that will get her to respond to you…and then that’s it.
Once you send out that e-mail, it’s up to you to sit, wait, and twiddle your thumbs. You should never harass her after you send those e-mails out, because if you do, she’s going to end up never replying to you at all.
We’ve been there.
We know it can be incredibly stressful waiting around to hear from a gorgeous lady on a hookup site. Even still, it’s incredibly important to just keep your mouth shut and wait at least 10 days before you send her an e-mail again. If you harass her, you’re never going to get anywhere!
It’s important all the same to realize what email templates really work. Here are several as an example:
“Hi, Teresa. You have a gorgeous smile, and that’s what ended up drawing me into your profile. What kept me around, though, was your interest in BDSM. I’ve been looking to get into the scene, and I was wondering if you had any tips, or if you knew of any good dungeons in our area?”
“Hi, Beatrice. What really caught my attention at first was your eyes, but then I started reading your profile and I was really intrigued. I’ve never actually tried out any sort of tantric sex before, but I’d be interested in learning about it. Do you know of any good tips for beginners?”
“Hi, Candy. You have a very cute name, and I have to say, I’ve never seen a woman quite as flexible as you before. I’m also pretty into food play in the bedroom as well…maybe we could check out this new restaurant that’s opening up this weekend to have a few ideas?”
As you can see, each and every one of these e-mails includes a compliment, something about their profile, and then something for these women to respond to. By including all of these things, you’re intensifying your chances greatly in order to get them to respond to you.
You have to be patient.
You don’t know what is going on in the lives of these women. That’s why it’s so important to wait before you send out more e-mails, and to never get upset that they aren’t replying to you. They might have moved onto another site, or they might have had something happen in their day to day life that is preventing them from replying right away.
Either way, if you’re a gentleman, friendly, and act like you want to have fun by showing genuine interest in them, you’re going to be a step ahead of all the other guys on these websites.
A final word of advice is in order.
Don’t ever outright compliment their boobs or their butt. Stick to complimenting their eyes, smiles, or even their hair if you must. Outright sexual compliments usually aren’t appreciated, so save that when you two really start flirting in your email correspondence.