First Date Tactics To Help You Get The Hookup You Are Looking For
Online hookups can be something of a daunting task once they actually come to fruition in real life, but they don’t have to be. Ideally, you’ll have discussed the sort of things that you want to do on your first hookup beforehand, but even if you haven’t, there are a few things that will make it that much easier to get exactly what you want out of your first hookup.
A lot of different things can happen.
There’s no real ultimate fix-all when it comes to dating strategies centered around that first hookup. That being said, there’s definitely something behind open-minded and generally prepared for most everything that might come your way, which is something you’re going to have to get into the swing of when it comes to online dating.
This is especially true if you haven’t set up any particular scenario that the two of you would like to play out, but even then, there will be unexpected bumps that happen along the way. It’s best to just roll with the punches and try and enjoy yourself anyway, because if you can laugh off those bumps, the you’re just going to end up having a lot more fun.
There are certain guidelines, however.
When it comes to thinking of how to hookup, there are just certain ideas that are better than others. For example, we highly recommend that you never end up taking your very first hookup to your own home, or that you never end up meeting up at her home, either.
The reason for this is that you simply aren’t entirely sure what you’re getting into. Rather than meeting at a personal residence, it’s best to get a hotel for the evening, and hookup with her there. Ultimately, this is a much safer choice, and the two of you will both feel much more secure in surroundings like this.
With that being said, there are other great preliminary meeting spots.
If you two are going to end up in a hotel for your hookup, your first meeting spot might be best done at a hotel bar. Hotel bars are, in general, clean, fun, and upscale, and allow the two of you to share a drink and a meal before you actually end up going back to your hotel.
You also can’t beat the convenience. If you’ve booked a hotel room at the same place, then it’s a simple walk up to your hotel room for a night of fun. She’ll enjoy your organization, and it will make things much more streamlined for both of you. There also won’t be any cab fare to worry about, or any car rides that might make either of you nervous.
Your dress and mannerisms matter, too.
It doesn’t matter how much planning you’ve done or how into you she seems to be; you still need to dress and act like a gentleman. Even if you two have a scenario planned where you kidnap her after the meal, you need to act like a gentleman for the entirety of the evening, and look the part as well.
It’s important that you don’t get too flirtatious or sexually promiscuous with her in public. While the end game of this evening is, ultimately, sex, that doesn’t mean that you need to be all over her. It’s going to make her uncomfortable, and it might even make her call off the entire evening.
Always, always be clean.
Shower before you show up to meet her. This should be common sense, but you’d be surprised how many men simply don’t do this. If you’re neat, clean, and smell nice, you’re going to have a much better chance at getting laid than you’d ever imagine.
Also, never forget your hookup ‘kit.’ Condoms and lube are a must, as well as any toys that the two of you might discussed. If you’re prepared to this degree, you’ll be off to a great start.