When you’re scoping out the bar, it pays to be able to tell at a glance which women are there to score and which are there to tease. If you’re always hitting on a woman only to find out that she’s not really into one night stands the odds are good that you didn’t read the signals that are literally painted on her face. Use this guide and you’ll be able to lock in on the women who are dying for a little attention.
Bare Minimum Makeup
We’d say “no makeup,” but the chances are good that anyone you meet in a bar is going to be wearing at least a little. If she’s not wearing any at all, don’t even bother. If the woman you pick out is wearing just a little bit of makeup, there are a couple options. The first is that she’s taken; watch for signs of having a boyfriend and check for a wedding ring. If she’s acting flirty, drinking or dancing a lot and she doesn’t have a ring in sight, you’re in luck.
If she wants attention but isn’t using a lot of makeup, it means that she doesn’t know how to get the attention that she craves. Give it to her, and you’re going to stand out in the crowd in the best way possible.
The “Natural” Look
It takes ages to get the look of natural beauty. It also takes a bit of skill. If the woman you want has painted herself up nicely but not garishly, you’re in for a bit more of a challenge. She knows how to handle herself out there, and she’s used to getting and holding the attention of men. She’s put a lot of practice into tonight, but she’s not going too far and putting herself out there. She’s making you come to her, and that means that there’s a dance afoot. This is the kind of woman you have to charm, so buy her a drink and take things slow. Keep the seduction going all night long, and you’ll find her going home with you. Be too hasty, and she’ll move on to someone else.
Heavy or Unusual Makeup
If she’s got eyeshadow in all the colors of the rainbow, she’s screaming “look at me!” It seems obvious, but it bears repeating anyway. If the woman you pick out is going for the dramatic makeup look she wants attention badly. She’s going to be getting a lot of it, though, so make your play fast and strong if you want to stand out from the competition. If you want to have a good night, start investing your attention in her early; you may be able to get her home and and then set her loose in time to still get a great night’s sleep.