Whoever the person was who invented coffee and coffee shops deserves an award. Not only is it liquid from the gods that magically wakes you the hell up, it’s also a Mecca for hot women. They work there, they drink there, and they hang out there. It’s almost impossible to not see at least one attractive female in the vicinity. But because of that formula of coffee + coffee shop = beautiful women you also get the unfortunate co-formula of coffee + coffee shop + beautiful women = major creepers who hit on said women way too much. It’s a pitfall for sure, but you are no ordinary man. You’re going to side step that pitfall like a boss and get your coffee shop honey, and here’s how.
Avoid the Usual
The women that work behind the counter as well as the women that frequent the joint aren’t going to want to hear the same pickup lines that all of the other guys use. “The only thing that’s hotter than the coffee here is the barista!” Does that sound seductive to you? No way, you’ve got to be more genuine than that. The only way to pull off a good pickup line is to make it a compliment. “Wow, your eyes are really pretty. Are you wearing contacts?” You’re still noticing something about her and commenting on its beauty, but also adding a little bit of pickup along with it. If she is wearing contacts remark that she has good taste in the color that she picked. If she’s not wearing them, then don’t push your cheesiness any further. Simply say that she’s lucky to have good genes or something along the lines of that.
Put in the Work
When you’re considering trying to have sex with a woman you met in a coffee shop you’ve got to be prepared to be in it for the long haul. They are used to guys trying to get lucky quickly and it obviously doesn’t work (otherwise they’d all be taken). Any interest in sex is going to have to come with the territory of actually trying to date the girl. It’s going to take weeks, maybe even months, so don’t start if you’re going to pansy out.
Use Kind Gestures
Once you’ve actually established a little report with your barista it’s time to take it a step further. Stand out to her by pulling off some majorly kind gestures. More often than not it’s the assholes who are remembered because they have such extreme reactions. You want to go the opposite route to get remembered. If your lady moves to another shop go out of your way to still go to her to get your coffee or send her flowers at her new job wishing her luck. Buying her coffee won’t really be all that nice since they sort of get it for free, so instead buy her a smaller gift like a new mug or coffee-themed gift. She’ll have something to remember you by and it will be useful/ related to her job. Not creepy, but definitely thoughtful.