You’ve probably heard people mention that they are open-minded more times you can count. Almost anyone will tell you that they are open-minded. However, the truth is that a lot of us have no clue of what open-minded even is. Dating a woman who is ten pounds heavier than what you’re used to isn’t being open-minded. Going on a date with a woman a couple of years older than you isn’t being open-minded. Letting her tie you up for a few minutes before you have sex with her in your favorite sexual position isn’t being open-minded. In short, being open-minded requires you to be willing to try completely different things than what you may be used to.
Go For It
The next time you’re at the club or a bar, look at all the women around you. First, take some time to check out all the women that you would be more than willing to have sex with. After that, you should look at the women that you’d be okay with have a quick no-strings attached hookup. Once you have looked at all these women, ignore them and approach the women you would never even give the time of day for one reason or another. If you don’t usually go for heavier women, go up to one of them and start flirting. If you spot a group of gorgeous women with that one unattractive friend tagging along, go up to the unattractive women and start chatting with her.
The reason why you want to put your time and energy into women that you do not typically find attractive is because there is a high chance that other people do not find them attractive as well. What this means is that these women are going to be so pleased to have your attention that they will be willing to do almost anything to keep you interested in them. Some of the best sex many men have ever had is with unattractive women.
Don’t Get Caught Up
When you hook up with unattractive women, you still want to make sure that you treat them well. Ugly or not, some of these women take pride in themselves and treating them any differently in the bedroom than you would a beautiful woman will not go unnoticed. Also, if you want to hook up with them again, treating them poorly will definitely not work out in your favor.
We also encourage you to take control over when and how the two of you hook up. If possible, do not let any of these meetings take place at your house or somewhere you commonly frequent. We suggest you tell her that you live a few cities away, but that you would love to call her whenever you’re in town. This will lessen the chances of her always wanting to hang out with you or trying to convince you to be in a relationship with her.