When you’re picking out your woman you’ve got to do it early on. It doesn’t matter if you’re at a work function, a bar, whatever. Decide who you’re going to tempt that night and stick with her. Start your flirting subtly, with smiles and long glances. When you start to notice that she’s returning the gestures you’ve got to act quickly…
The Initial Contact
You must act quickly because if you don’t she’s going to lose interest and move on or think you’re just plain creepy. Once she’s started to smile and hair flip at you go talk to her. Keep all questions non-sexual and all about her. She’s going to feel spoiled with all of this sudden attention. Do not offer up any info on yourself unless she directly asks you to. Even then you want to give a short answer and switch the conversation back to her, but be slick about it. She might say, “So where are you from?” An inappropriate answer would be, “A town, tell me where you’re from.” That’s creepy from anyone. You might answer shortly, “Bristol. Where did you grow up?” You answered very shortly and turned it around in a way that will get her to talk by using the words “grow up”. Now it’s more than where was she born, but where did she experience life events.
After you’ve talked a while (10 or more minutes) it’s safe to buy her a drink and tell her that you like what’s happening. Now is the time to exchange phone numbers. Don’t just ditch it all then, you want to have a smooth goodbye and keep around to wave and smile at her when you leave. Don’t call her earlier than two days later. Even if she calls you, let it go to voicemail. When you do call her back let her know that you had a great time and all of that. Keep it under 20 minutes long. This might seem formulaic, but it’s for the best to keep you a mystery by keeping things short. The call should end with you inviting her out for a simple coffee date or something. It’s absolutely important that you end it. You will have the ball in your court if you do.
Now for the Chase
Yeah we didn’t forget. It does take some planning to get her to chase you, but now that you’ve got her comfortable it’s finally time for it to happen. She has those cozy feelings of you liking her and when you start to ignore her a bit she’ll wonder why you aren’t talking to her as much. When she calls you pick up the phone and have a longer, really happy sounding conversation. Then say you’ll call her back in a few days. Repeat this process and she’s yours.