Whenever you are meeting someone on hookup dating sites, you need to concentrate on what you are going to say in the first email you send her. As the first contact you have with her other than some messages on the system, this is an important piece of communication. Make sure you are avoiding some of the most dangerous things which will guarantee you will never get a return email.
Don’t Go On a Rant
The last thing any woman wants to see as soon as she opens an email is a long diatribe. She would much rather see a brief message from you about how glad you are talking with one another. Keep your message short and to the point. Chances are pretty good if you write her a novel, she will not even read the first word and will delete the email.
Sex Convo Should Be Saved
Even if you meet women on hookup sites, it does not mean she wants you to be all sex all the time. If you open up the conversation in the first email with a bunch of sex talk, she is not going to want to hear anything else from you. Leave a little intrigue and something for her to look forward to.
Skip Talking All About You
Remember the point of sending each other email is to get to know each other a little more and establish contact. She has read your profile and she knows enough about you to want to have further contact with you. If you just load her down with a ton of information about yourself, she is going to think you are egotistical and will want nothing more to do with you. Instead, you might just want to talk about her. She will be more receptive to this.
She Does Not Want to Hear About Your Ex
Some guys do not get the message that other women do not want to hear about the relationship they just got out of. She would rather think about the good times you are going to have together rather than hearing about the women you used to be with. If you start talking about other women, she is going to wonder whether you are even ready to see someone new and she will check out altogether. If you establish a relationship with her, that would be the time to talk about past relationships.
Ask Her Out on the Second or Third Email
Even if she wants to go out with you, she does not want the first email to be nothing but a come on. Make sure you are not even alluding to going out on a date with her in the first email. This email is strictly to establish contact with her. If you start talking about going out on a date with her right away, you will appear to be desperate and this will turn her off. If you can wait until at least the second email, you will have a much better shot at her saying yes.