You’ve been messaging women on online dating sites for a while, but now you have a woman who wants to meet up with you and have a one-nighter. You might be a pro at the one-night stand game by now or you may have been out of the game for a while; either way, there are some essentials that you should keep on hand to make the night as pleasurable and relaxing as possible for the both of you. Some of these items may be difficult to tote around if you’re meeting up elsewhere, but if you have taken your girl home for the night, make sure to have all of the essentials stocked and ready.
Drinks of All Kinds
You may have just come from a bar, in which case neither of you are likely to need more spirits in you, or you may be completely sober. Either way, it’s essential to have a well-stocked refrigerator and liquor cabinet alike. Nothing is worse than being in someone’s house and not having anything to drink or eat, so make sure to have a good variety of non-alcoholic beverages. Bottled water, sports drinks, iced teas, juice, whatever you can think of – if you have too much spare room in your fridge, fill it up with different kinds of drinks. It goes a long way towards making your woman of the night feel like she’s right at home, which in turn will make her more comfortable with you and the night ahead. If either of you are feeling nervous, having a glass of wine or a can of beer can help loosen you up. Try to limit it to just one drink so that you both get comfortably relaxed, but not blitzed enough to affect your performance or memory whatsoever. You’re trying to have a night to remember, not one to forget!
The Sex Essentials
Obviously if you’re having a one-night stand you’re going to want to have all of the essentials so that you don’t have to stop in the middle of things. Have plenty of fresh condoms on hand, and always keep at least a little bit of nice lube on hand in case you need some help getting things going smoothly or making things more comfortable for her. If you like it kinky, you may want to keep the handcuffs and blindfolds out of plain sight so you don’t freak her out. Make sure she’s into it too before you go for it, and if she is, you’ll want to have a good assortment of toys on hand for maximum variety!
The inevitable morning after can be awkward at times, but you can help make things more comfortable for your date if you have your bathroom stocked with extra items. She may have forgotten her toothbrush at home, so make sure to keep spare toothbrushes in a cabinet somewhere she can grab one. This thoughtful touch may just land you a second night with her!