You might be feeling like a little fry in a pond full of steele head salmon, but that doesn’t mean that you can’t get at their queen. Alright, fish don’t have queens, but the analogy still sort of works. In any species the goal is to bang the best mate, so why would it differ with humans? You want to score the hottest woman in the room because she’s the best, and even if you aren’t exactly on her level you can still be successful. It’s going to take some work, but if you’re willing to tweak some things you’ve got going on you can tap that.
You’re Only Good at Being You
Why be anyone else when you’re already yourself? When you’re going for the gold it’s not as if you’re the first runner who’s ever tried to win this race. Hot women are constantly bombarded by guys who want to get in her pants so she’s heard every pickup line that there is. That’s where you come in, Mr. Genuine. You tell her about yourself without exaggerating (too much) and impress her with your sincerity. Having an open expression on your face will make you look harmless and honest; two qualities she’s probably not all that used to. This also gives her the rare chance to just be herself. She has a standard of insane beauty that she has to hold up all of the time. That must suck, so give her the chance to have a mini vacation from Barbie Land and come back to just being a person.
Alright, so you obviously don’t want to approach a chick who doesn’t want to be approached. If she’s hobbled up in the corner with her hood pulled up over her head then leave her. Go after the attractive woman who looks approachable. She doesn’t have to look happy or be waving you over, but as long as she doesn’t seem to be hiding a knife to put in your face then go for it. Once you make first contact you’ve got to avoid the cheesy lines. Try witty or a joke, but keep it light and non-sexual. Again, she’s used to dicks flying at her from all angles. You’re trying to be the guy that wants to converse with her and actually listen to what she’s got to say. Keep your body open with wide shoulders and a straight back. Confidence isn’t all in what you say, it’s how you look. Nervous shuffling and switching your weight back and forth on your feet are dead giveaways of a scared guy.
You don’t want to appear desperate so once your conversation is done just leave her. Still flirt with her from across the room and smile. When you’re getting ready to leave go up to her and say something like “I don’t come here often, can I give you my number and we’ll continue our conversation later?” You’re not putting any pressure on her to give out her number, but you’re upping your chances of getting in good with her later.