No matter what you’re aiming for when you register for an online dating site, whether one night stands, casual or serious relationships, there are some behaviors that will turn even the most desperate people off. Bad manners and behaviorisms make interaction and conversation immensely difficult. Though sometimes, the problem is that you don’t realize that you’re doing something that puts others off. You’ve always folded pizza when you eat it, nobody ever said anything, so it can’t be that terrible. But while this may be ok when you’re at home, when you’re on a date, it’s going to make your date judge your potential skills in bed and ruin your chances.
It doesn’t always have to be about ironing out bad habits. Getting to know the three most important manners for picking up women can improve your chances even if you never had to deal with especially bad manners.
Eating vs. Pigging out
Usually, when you meet up with someone you met online, they’ll insist on meeting on a public place. More often than not, it’s a restaurant or café. You’d think nothing much can go wrong when you’re out eating; just avoid the garlic bread and you’ll be fine. It isn’t the Ritz after all. But for women, the way you consume your food and drink is representative for your sexual abilities. This is why eating and drinking habits are relevant to dating. Men who take the time to enjoy what they’ve ordered are considered to be equally attentive lovers. In contrast to that, if you inhale your order because you’re hungry and need something right now, your date will think you’re only interested in fulfilling your own needs. So remember to enjoy. If necessary, eat a snack before heading out to avoid looking like a starving man.
People, especially women, want to feel like they’re special to you. Even if you’re just aiming for a one night stand or a casual relationship, they like to think that they’re the best you can get at exact that moment. There has to be a reason why you’re interested in them and not the other people, after all. So when you’re on a date with a woman you’d like to get to know on a more intimate level, the worst thing you can do is give off the signal that they’re currently not at the top of your priority list. These signals can include keeping your phone on the table, regularly checking it like you’re looking for an excuse to leave or even writing messages that aren’t hey-buddy-I-crashed-your-ride important.
What Behaviors Do You Expect?
This is the best question you can ask yourself. You have certain expectations from your date’s manners. In turn, you shouldn’t be a hypocrite and break your own rules. If you don’t want to see the completely drunken side of your date, don’t show them yours and set an example. Because the last thing you’d want to be is that guy she tells horror stories about to her friends.